Trauma after dating girl with bpd eve dating white man
She shifted between being the poor, hapless, weeping victim to being the angry, nasty attacker within a matter of seconds.
This shifted back and forth a few times during the break up talk.
It's basically narcissism without grandiosity, but with an absolute refusal to consider one's own behavior, expectations, or perceptions of others as being pathological.
The locus is *always* external I've been dating this woman for 4 years. We live a few hours apart and have been seeing each other every other month.
During the break up talk, she immediately became the victim of my "horrible" treatment of her.
I never told her that I knew she had BPD, but in reaction to her passive aggressive nastiness and emotional manipulation during our break up talk, I told her that I was not her psychologist, which just fueled her BPD rage.
Here are a few of the things she did during our relationship:- Stalked me, sitting outside my house for hours- Keyed my car- Threatened suicide about 10 times or more when I tried to leave her- Faked pregnancies twice, declaring they could me mine, or a guy called Mike (who the f**k is mike?! You're exactly the kind of guy they want because destroying you is a real achievement. And if you think you're in control, you aren't, they are more manipulative, more calculating, and more evil than you are. And there is the more mild but also quite frequently encountered 21st Century personality disorder: The 21st century personality disorder, or 21CPD, is what has replaced borderline personality disorder as the most intense headache for psychiatrists in the new millennium.
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