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But if you are broke and showing no drive, direction, or dedication and you just like to sit at home getting stoned playing Dungeons and Dragons all day long then most women will lose interests faster than a toupee in a hurricane.Men with money usually have a lot of ambition, hints the reason they made their fortune.My friends all have boyfriends, and I’m really looking to settle down. By the way, it never gets farther than kissing with me. Men leap to attention and whisper to each other before approaching. And make no mistake about it, most men want to bag you. I’m as sensitive a guy as you’re going to find in terms of how I communicate with women, but I can still remember the rush of dating a Perfect 10.I realize that if they don’t stick around because I won’t have sex with them, then at least I know. It seems that attractive girls only get guys that want to sleep with them. Yes, the pretty girl has more dates than she needs and probably has a waiting list a mile long. Well, if you’re a pretty girl or you know a pretty girl, you know exactly what’s wrong. It was as if her magical glow rubbed off on me in some way when she walked into a room. I wouldn’t want to have to make pillow talk, or cook her breakfast, or call her the following day.So how do you decide if a man is interested in you or interested in sex? Maybe if she meets guys through friends, or if she meets them in places where it’s clear they have some kind of connection (like by taking an extra course at the cc or volunteering for the Humane Society) she will make the initial contact through some other type of interaction than sexual, she will have better luck.
Imagine what it’s like when you’re objectified wherever you go. A reasonable man with looks and money and life experience might very well say to himself, after five dates with nothing more than a kiss, “Screw this.I am 25 years old and have never been in a serious relationship.I am a very attractive girl and I tend to meet guys easily and go on dates mostly every weekend. You’re catered to so frequently that you may lack some kindness, empathy or social grace.I’m going to find a woman who matches my passion, who makes me feel attractive and sexy, who is excited about me.”It’s not that you’re wrong for attempting to protect yourself, Ashley.It’s that your layers of protection may be having an unintended side effect—putting off otherwise well-meaning men who don’t want to feel like they’re in seventh grade all over again.